"A Time for This and a Time for That"
Some of the Companions of the Prophet (peace be on him) attained great
spiritual heights. They believed that in order to remain at such a spiritual
level they should always be serious, engaged in constant worship, turning
their backs on all the enjoyments of life and the good things of the world,
neither playing nor relaxing but keeping their eyes and their minds fixed
on the Hereafter and its concerns, away from common life and its amusements.
Let us listen to what this great Companion and scribe of the Prophet (peace
be on him), Hanzalah al-Usaidi, has to say about himself.- Abu Bakr met
me and asked, 'How are you, Hanzalah?' I replied, 'Hanzalah has become
a hypocrite.' He said, 'Subhanallah! What are
you saying?' I replied, 'When we are with Allah's Messenger (peace
be on him), he mentions the Fire and the Garden until it is as if we can
see them. But when we leave the Prophet's company and play with our wives
and children or
busy ourselves with our properties, we forget much.' Abu Bakr said,
'By Allah, I have experienced the same thing.' He and I then went to visit
the Messenger of Allah (peace be on him), and I said, 'O Messenger of Allah,
Hanzalah has
become a hypocrite.' He asked, 'And how is that?' I replied, 'O Messenger
of Allah, when we are with you, you talk about the Fire and the Garden
until it is as if we can see them. Then we go out and play with our wives
and children
and deal with our properties, and we forget much.'The Messenger of
Allah (peace be on him) then said, 'By Him in Whose hand is my soul, if
you were to continue at the same level at which you were when with me and
in remembering
Allah, the angels would shake hands with you when you are resting and
when you walk about, but, 0 Hanzalah, there is a time (for this) and a
time (for that).' He repeated this phrase three times.(Reported by Muslim)
The Humanness of the Messenger of Allah
The life-pattern of the Messenger of Allah (peace be on
him) is a perfect example for every human being. When he was in private
he would worship his lord with such intense devotion, standing for long
hours in salat, that his feet would become swollen; in matters pertaining
to truth or justice he did not care about anyone's opinion, seeking only
the pleasure of Allah. But in his living habits and dealings with people
he was a human being, enjoying good things, participating in small talk,
smiling and joking, yet never departing from the truth. The Prophet (peace
be on him) liked happiness and disliked grief, he sought refuge with Allah
from difficulties and troubles which result in sorrow, supplicating, "O
Allah, I seek refuge in Thee from distress and grief."(Reported by abu-Daoud)
Concerning his sense of humor, it is reported that once an old
woman came to him, saying, "O Messenger of Allah, pray to Allah that He
admit me to the Garden." The Prophet (peace be on him) said, "O mother
of such a person, no old woman will enter the Garden." The woman broke
down and wept, supposing that she would not enter Paradise. The Prophet
(peace be on him) then explained to her that no old woman would enter the
Garden as an old woman, for
Allah would restore her youth and admit her to the Garden as a young
virgin. He then recited to her the verse,
We created them as a (new) creation, and made them virgins,
lovers, friends.' (56: 35-37)
Relaxing the Mind
Following the Prophet's example, his noble and pure Companions
also enjoyed humor and laughter, play and sport, which relaxed their bodies
and minds and prepared them the better to travel on the long, arduous path
of striving in
the cause of truth and justice. 'Ali bin Abu Talib said, "Minds get
tired, as do bodies, so treat them with humor," and "Refresh your minds
from time to time, for a tired mind becomes blind." 'And Abu al-Darda said,
"I entertain my
heart with something trivial in order to make it stronger in the service
of the truth."
Accordingly, there is no harm in the Muslim's entertaining
himself in order to relax his mind or refreshing himself with some permissible
sport or play with his friends. However, the pursuit of pleasure should
not become the goal
of his life so that he devotes himself to it, forgetting his religious
obligations. Nor should he joke about serious matters. It has been aptly
said, "Season your conversation with humor in the same proportion as you
season your food with salt."
The Muslim is forbidden to joke and laugh about other
people's values and honor. Allah says: O you who believe, let
not some people mock at other people; it may be that they are better than
thee ... (49:11) Nor is it appropriate for the Muslim to tell jokes based
on what is untrue in order to make people laugh. The Prophet (peace be
on him) warned against this, saying, "Woe to the one who says something
which is false in order to make people laugh! Woe to him, woe to him" (reported
by al-Tirmidhi)
Permissible Sports
There are many kinds of games and sports which the Prophet (peace be
on him) recommended to the Muslims as a source of enjoyment and recreation
which, at the same time, prepare them for worship and other obligations.
These
sports, which require skill and determination, and which also involve
physical exercise and body- building activity, are related to the martial
arts, training Muslims for the battlefields of jihad in the cause of Allah.
Among them are the following:
Foot Racing
The Companions of the Prophet (may Allah be pleased with them) used
to race on foot and the Prophet (peace be on him) encouraged them in this.
It is reported that 'Ali was a fast runner. The Prophet (peace be on him)
himself raced with his wife 'Aishah in order to please her, to enjoy himself,
and to set an example for his Companions. 'Aishah said, I raced with the
Prophet (peace be on him) and beat him in the race. Later, when I had put
on some weight, we
raced again and he won. Then he said, 'This cancels that," (reported
by Ahmad and Abu Daoud) referring to the previous occasion.
Wrestling
The Prophet (peace be on him) once wrestled with a man called Rukanah
who was well-known for his strength, throwing him down more than once."(Reported
by Abu Daoud). In another report of this incident, the Prophet (peace be
on him) started wrestling with him. As the fight was hard, Rukanah said,
"A sheep for a sheep."((This must have occured before the prohibiton of
gambling, or perhaps the prophet SAW did not accept the bet and hence did
not rnforce its terms.) The Prophet (peace be on him) then threw him. The
man said, "The same again." The Prophet (peace be on him) threw him again,
and the man said, "The same again." The Prophet (peace be on him) threw
him a third time. The man then said, "What shall I tell my wife? One sheep
was eaten by the wolf, one ran away, but what about the third " Then
the Prophit SAW said, "We are not going to defeat you and take something
from you as well. Take your sheep!"
From these reports concerning the Prophet SAW, jurists have deduced
the permissibility of foot racing, whether it be berween men against each
other or between men and womenwho are their (muharrmmat) or wives.
They have also
concluded that foot racing, wrestling, and sports of this type do not
compromise the dignity of scholarship, piety, or age. The prophit
(peace be on him) was more than fifty years when he raced with 'Aishah.