A. First, I think it is wonderful of you to address this ever growing problem, as concerned parents. Explain to your son that the children he hears swearing think it makes them appear more grown up and that they are looking for attention. They feel that by using this kind of language, younger children will look up to them. In actuality, vulgar language only belittles them. When people rely on profanity, they are just cheating themselves by missing the opportunity to use more expressive words.
Unfortunately, more and more movies and television shows are promoting foul language. What a pity they can't take the high road and skip the profanity.
Once vulgar vocabulary becomes a part of everyday conversation, it is a hard habit to break. Every time your son uses a profane word ask him to substitute a word that would be more appropriate in the sentence. If he uses them alone, perhaps when he spills or breaks something, tell him to use a word that has a funny meaning or a silly made-up word. Hopefully, if you keep on top of this, he will not get into the habit of using crude language. I wish you well in your endeavors. Please let me know what happens.
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