April 14, 2008

 

In the early morning of April 14, 2008 Emily left this earth to be with the Lord.  We are sad that she is no longer with us in body and we will miss her more than words can say, but we choose to remember the good times and we are thankful for the fourteen years we had with her.  Emily had a wonderful life that was filled with family, friends and a lot of happiness.  We will remember her sense of humor, her laugh, her bravery, her strength and her beautiful smile.  Emily wanted to be a teacher when she grew up, and although she may not teach our future children, she has taught all of those who knew her that you need to live for the moment and make every day count.

 

All of the money that was so generously donated towards “Emily’s Breath of Hope” will go to help other children awaiting transplant. Even though Emily was not able to receive her “Breath of Hope,” we are sure she would be happy to know that other children in need of a life saving transplant will benefit from the funds raised to help her.  Emily’s last wish was to become an organ donor herself.  Although her cystic fibrosis destroyed many of her organs, Emily was able to give the gift of sight by donating her corneas.  

 

Emily, you are truly missed and we take comfort in knowing that you are in a better place.

 

With all of our love,

Your Family and Friends

 

Arrangements  

 

Wednesday night from 7:00-9:00pm there will be a viewing at Rosewood-Kellum Funeral Home, 631 North Witchduck Road in Virginia Beach.

 

Thursday morning there will be a private burial. Funeral services will be held at 3:00 pm and reception to follow at New Life Providence Church, 1244 Thompkins Lane in Virginia Beach.

 

I lieu of flowers the family is asking that you consider becoming an organ donor.  This can easily be done by logging on to http://www.save7lives.org.   Donations can also be made to the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation in honor of Emily by going to www.cff.org  or sponsoring the family as they will be walking in honor of Emily at the Great Strides walk for Cystic Fibrosis.  You can sponsor the family by logging onto the “Emily’s Breath of Hope” team page.

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March 2008

Emily was admitted to Children’s Hospital of the King’s Daughters (CHKD) Monday, March 31st with what we thought was a “typical” infection, but by the next day, we knew that it was much worse than usual.  Emily’s condition deteriorated to the point that she was ready to be moved to St. Louis Children’s Hospital for treatment and to await transplant.  While waiting for transport to St. Louis, Emily’s condition continued to worsen to the point that transport was not possible.   Emily will remain at CHKD in the ICU until doctors determine that she is stable.  At that time, she will be transported to St. Louis to wait for a matching donor.

 

We would like to thank everyone for all of your continued support, thoughts and prayers.  Please continue to pray that Emily will overcome her current infection so that she can receive her “Breath of Hope” in St. Louis.

 

June 2007

Emily is doing well and is still awaiting her transplant.  In the past year, since all of you were so generous in helping Emily reach her goal, Emily and her family have been trying to settle down from the whirlwind of the campaign.  Emily has been to St. Louis Children’s Hospital, where she will be receiving her transplant, a few times for her check ups. The doctors are pleased with her status at this time.  Emily has also been hospitalized several times here locally for typical Cystic Fibrosis related infections and one time for some “maintenance surgery.” The surgery was to replace a port that she had outgrown, fix a hernia, and a stomach procedure to help with acid reflux.   These procedures will help her to maintain her health and get her to transplant as strong as possible.  Doctors can’t say how long it will be until she receives her transplant, but they will continue to evaluate her condition.

 Emily continues to do the things she loves most.  She still reads a lot and loves to play with her three sisters and many cousins.   Also, she has been helping her “Papa,” (grandfather) teach computer to preschool children.  Emily has a dream to one day become a teacher.

 Again, thank you all for your continued support.  We could not have made it this far without all of your thoughts and prayers.

 

April 2005

Last year Emily was told that her Cystic Fibrosis had caused irreversible damage to her lungs and she would need a life saving double lung transplant.  Local doctors at the Children’s Hospital of the King’s Daughters (CHKD) referred Emily and her family to the St. Louis Children’s Hospital where specialists will perform the operation.  After reviewing financial and insurance limits, Emily’s family was told that $500,000 would be needed to cover transplant related expenses.  In order to raise the funds we asked the Children’s Organ Transplant Association (COTA), a national non-profit organization, to guide us in reaching our goal. 

      Faced with such a daunting task, we felt this would be a long journey.  Our efforts began with a car wash on July 3, 2004 raising $777.87.  With each new fundraising event more and more people in the community embraced Emily by offering their prayers, time, talents, and treasures.  As Emily’s story began to spread the generosity went far beyond the limits of our community and across the nation.  Incredibly just seven months later, thanks to you and everyone involved, our goal has been reached. 

     Our campaign focus now shifts from financial to organ donation. Without an organ donor, all the money in the world will not give Emily her second chance at life.  Each day about 70 people receive an organ transplant, but another 16 die because not enough organs are available. One donor can potentially help more than 50 other people.  Please consider becoming an organ donor.  Most states have a consent form built into their driver's license program.  For more information check your state’s website or you can visit the United States government website at www.organdonor.gov.   It is also important to talk to family members to make your intentions clear.  Even if you have a signed donor card, a family member may need to give consent before organ donation can occur. 

     This campaign has truly been a life changing experience for everyone involved.  Words cannot express how much we have been touched by the thoughtfulness of so many.  Emily looks forward to doing things that a healthy eleven year old can do without having to worry about running out of breath.  She has said that she just wants to be able to run again, go on family canoe and camping trips, walk up and down stairs without getting winded and just go outside and play.  These shouldn’t be the wishes of a little girl; she should be wishing for dolls, books, games, pretty dresses and everything else that little girl’s dream of.  Emily came up with the slogan for her campaign all by herself “Emily’s Breath of Hope”- the ultimate wish, the hope to breathe.  From Emily’s entire family, we thank you for not only giving Emily her “Breath of Hope” but also giving us the hope that we will see her become that healthy little girl who’s wishes come true.

     Now we wait for transplant.  Emily remains on the transplant list and as her cystic fibrosis progresses doctors will continue to monitor her condition.  When her lung function reaches 30% she will move to St. Louis and wait for a matching donor.  Please visit Emily’s website for updates and to follow her journey back to health.      

 

Forever Grateful,

Emily’s Entire Family 

Emily's Personal Thank You

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We have met our financial goal!