Etiquette for E-Mail Lists

Everyone has a general idea of what constitutes good or bad behavior.  It has been said that "Netiquette", or etiquette for the Internet,  is the way your grandmother would behave if she were hooked on the Internet.  Below are rules for our behavior when on an email list, for your consideration.

  1. Save the welcome message you get when registering with a list. This often includes instructions on how to unsubscribe, changing from regular to digest mode, how to post, list rules, and a way to contact the list moderator.
  2.  When first joining an email list, either read the archived posts or LURK on the list for a couple of days.  Either way it will give you a feel for the purposes, courtesies, and members of the list.  Read the list guidelines your moderator sends you and follow them.
  3.  Make your first post to the list be an introduction, but keep it brief - your name, where you live and any pertinent information that would help other list members know you. Some lists consider it proper for members to welcome new members to the list, lists that are rather large may discourage such unnecessary postings.
  4.  DON'T USE ALL CAPS !!!! In today's Internet all caps is considered "SHOUTING." With the exception of genealogy lists where only the surnames may be in all caps.
  5.  When replying to a message include enough of the message you are replying to that people can understand what you are reacting to. But do not include the entire message. Just doing Reply will re-send the entire old message along with your new message. Many people will find this slows their downloads and may even costs them more money. Unnecessary messages are also not proper, such as a "me too" or "amen" reply.
  6.  Don't just type and send but first read and re-read your message. This helps you catch typos, catch phrases that may offend someone, etc.
  7.  Participate in the list, don't lurk for ever. Lists only become helpful and interesting when we all participate.
  8.  Whenever you reply to a post, send a copy to the member who wrote it and to the list. Among other things this helps those who only get the list in digest mode.
  9. Don't FLAME!  Don't create, encourage, or prolong arguments nor be a part of criticizing others. Of course we should state our position which may be contrary to others' point of view but we don't need to be nasty.
  10. Take significant problems with the list to your list's moderator. Don't air dirty laundry on the list.