Blessed Beginnings Birth Services

Make your baby's birth a special beginning: A Blessed Beginning. Use an experienced doula who knows how to make this special event an extraordinary day to be cherished forever: birth the way YOU want it.


Katherine Houdek Gurney, B. S., CD(DONA)
Experienced Labor Doula
Postpartum Doula

Phone: (918) 355-7206
email: kath-doula@cox.net



What is a Doula?

What is a Doula? You undoubtedly have many questions, on of which is probably “What is a Doula?”  The word “Doula”, originally from the Greek language, means “servant.”  Today it refers to a woman who helps another woman through childbirth.  This supportive companion is professionally trained to provide physical, emotional, and informational support to women and their partners during labor and birth as well as help and advice on non-pharmacologic comfort measures such as breathing, relaxation, massage and positioning.  She can also assist families on gathering information about the course of their labor and their options.

Why Did I Become a Doula?

I have always been fascinated by the miracle of childbirth.  I’ve always had a heart to help pregnant women through territory that is new to them and their partner, especially those who are experiencing a crisis pregnancy.  When I heard about the work of the doula 5 years ago, I felt that a new world of helping pregnant women had opened to me.  I contacted DONA (Doulas of North America) and received my certification packet.  After that, I devoured all the labor and birth care books that I could get my hands on.  I had to travel to attend a doula training course in Minneapolis, MN, lead by a wonderful trainer, Gail Tully.  I’ve been certified as a birth doula through DONA since April of 2001.  Since then I’ve had the opportunity to attend births in many settings including some out of the Tulsa area (Chicago, Minnesota, and Boston).

What are the Benefits of Using a Doula?

According to the ground-breaking work of Drs. Marshall Klaus and John Kennell and Phyllis Klaus, M.Ed. in their book, Mothering the Mother, studies have shown that having a doula in attendance can result in the following benefits:

My Services:

Labor Doula:

I work with moms on a personalized birth plan based on their preferences for the labor and delivery of their baby. I also work with dads giving them ideas on how to best support their partners throughout labor. This will usually be done during one (or more) of three prenatal visits. My fees vary and include: Three prenatal visits, time spent with you in labor (at home or hospital), a postpartum visit in the hospital (or home), and a keepsake story of your baby's birth.  Before I can add you to my schedule, a non-refundable retainer fee of  $150 is due upon signing of a contract for doula services.  For some reasons I may be out of town or with another client.  These occasions are rare as I normally do not schedule any clients over scheduled vacation periods.  I work with another certified doula who will serve as a backup if for some unforeseen reason I'm unavailable for your birth. 

Postpartum Doula Service:

Postpartum doula services are available at the rate of $15 per hour.  This includes caring for you and your baby at home during the postpartum period and includes help with breastfeeding, newborn care, information resources, light housekeeping, shopping, and childcare.  This is especially helpful if you are recovering from a cesarean section.

Childbirth Education:

Private childbirth education is available and is taught in your home tailored to your specific needs and schedule.  The processes and stages of labor are discussed as well as various relaxation techniques.  I usually meet with you and your labor partner for a total of 12 hours (preferably one night per week for two hours).  The cost for childbirth education classes is $125. 

My Qualifications:

More Information About Myself:

For the last 17 years, I have worked in the childbirth area through various outlets.  I’ve worked at crisis pregnancy centers, for hospitals, and I’ve attended births as an experienced labor doula for the last 6 years.  I have a Bachelor of Science degree from the University of Tulsa as well as an Associate of Arts degree from Tulsa Community College.


I am located in Owasso, Oklahoma, but I also work in Tulsa and surrounding suburbs such as Broken Arrow, Bixby, Jenks, Glenpool, and other surrounding areas.  I am no further than 25 minutes away from all of the major medical centers in Tulsa.


I've worked with expectant parents since 1987 and have truly enjoyed the experience. This work is my ministry and feel that I've been called to this special area of work. Please feel free to call or email me for more information.

Recommended Reading:

The Thinking Woman's Guide to a Better Birth,  Henci Goer

This book thoroughly examines all topics related to birth.  The "need to knows" about labor and delivery explained  in a very straightforward manner.  The author does not mince words and does a very good job of educating consumers about all aspects of  labor and birth.  Goer does an excellent job of educating the childbirth consumer and encourages the reader to discover the type of childbirth situation which is right for them.


The Birth Partner: Everything You Need to Know to Help a Woman During Childbirth,  Penny Simkin

This book is written for the woman's partner and explains everything from birth induction to the "take charge" method for helping a woman through difficult times during labor. 


The Complete Book of Pregnancy and Childbirth,  Sheila Kitzinger

Another must read for the expectant mom, Kitzinger does a wonderful job of explaining every facet of pregnancy from early pregnancy to the postpartum period.  She uses an easy-to-read format and explains the basics of childbirth without "dumbing down" the process.

  
The Doula Book: How a Trained Labor Companion Can Help You Have a Shorter, Easier, and Healthier Birth, Marshall H., M.D. Klaus, John H., M.D. Kennell, Phyllis H. Klaus

This book is a follow up to their original book Mothering the Mother.  In this book the reader is shown how doulas achieve their success and details the studies which have shown the benefits of a doula.

Links to Other Web Sites:

Doulas of North America

This site provides more information on doulas and certification as well as other consumer information on childbirth issues.

Life Passages

Life Passages offers Childbirth Consultation Services, doulas, home support, and classes, please contact us by email as to your needs and questions.