Doing What We Say We Will
My four children are their 30s and they still reveal past secrets to my wife and me. Today's gospel reading reminded me of one of our daughter's revelations. While in her teens, she had told us on Sunday that she was going to drive to church, but actually had gone out for breakfast. "Yes" she was going to go to church, but "no" she didn't. She was like the second son in today's gospel reading.
The reading is a parable about God's gracious invitation and the different
human responses to that call. The parable is not about two sons. It is
about two kinds of religious people:
Jesus told this parable to the chief priests and elders, people
from whom one expects a loyal response. These religious leaders should
have responded with a "yes" to Jesus' message. However, this gospel reveals
the irony that the very ones, who should have known better, are blind to
Jesus, while the ordinary and illiterate folk embrace him.
Which kind of people are we? Better yet, what kind of religious people do we want to be? How do we respond to Jesus' invitation to the kingdom of heaven? Do we believe Jesus and act accordingly, or do we say "yes," but exhibit no follow through?
Since God gives all of us a free will, we continuously have to make choices of drawing closer to him or pulling farther away. For you see, when we feel that God is farther away, it is not God who moved; we did. Therefore, it benefits us to examine our lives to see in which direction we are moving or if we are stuck and not moving at all. Let's examine where we are right now in our lives.
To enter the kingdom of God, we must say "yes." This requires a change of heart or a conversion experience. This conversion cannot be only a one-time event. We must have many such changes of heart to keep moving toward God. Otherwise, we might just stall out again and perhaps start drifting backwards.
Most people do not like change. But daily we must say "yes" and then
actually walk the talk. Here's a partial list of some suggestions that
can cause our hearts to change:
Each of us has received a gracious invitation to the kingdom of
God. If we respond with a "yes," then we must follow up on our response
with actions so as to draw closer to our Lord.