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01/09/05 |
Excerpt from "Doing It For Daddy", Pat Califia, editor. 1994. Boston, Alyson Publications, Inc.
"Daddy-boy relationships come out of a deep need to mend the fragile connection between older and younger gay men. They are one aspect of a healthy and vital desire to pass on the stories, experiences, sexual skills, and erotic wisdom that the larger society would be happy to disown and destroy. Too many young men still have to struggle alone with the question 'What does it mean to love or want another man? What kind of person does that make me? What will it do to the rest of my life?' Daddy-boy relationships are a form of mentoring. (Emphasis by DADDY BEN) The older men who are daddies are the new sexual heroes of this decade, because they have survived with hard-ons, an evil twinkle in their eyes, beards that were made to scrape the tender hair off a boy's round butt, big hands, broad belts, and boots that need a proper polishin'. (sic) The phrase 'Wait till your father gets home' has taken on a whole new meaning!"