Peter Grabski and family...click here for photo gallery
Jan 1, 2005
This is a collection of images from the first days in the life of Peter Thomas Grabski. Peter was born on December 13th 2004 at 8:19 p.m. He weighed in at 7 pounds and 19 inches. What's amazing about Peter is that he has trisomy 13. Simply put Peter has an extra thirteenth chromosome. The doctors informed us that this is "Not consistent with life." The prognosis was that Peter would likely, not survive past 24 weeks from conception. This site is a testimonial to the power of prayer and faith in God. Peter is sleeping in a carrier next to me as I write this. We brought him home from the hospital after two very difficult days in the hospital. The stress of worrying about Peter's condition was eclipsed by the administrative wrangling over the Do Not Resuscitate (DNR) order that a was put into place prior to his birth. This all or nothing order forced us to fight for Peter at every step. But, alas, he is home. In spite of a complete cleft lip and palette. He has difficulties, but we love him and thank God for every moment. Our friends and family continue to pray with us that the Lord’s purpose for Peter will be known. But for myself, I see some of the power of his being. We continue to hear of groups of many denominations praying for Peter. Each person is praying in his own way and offering support to our entire family. Friends from all over have been supporting us with prayers, offers to help with our intense logistics, meals, and gifts. Many of these friends we’ve known for years, but some we’ve just met, some we don’t even know. Someone stopped by our house and left a new outfit for Peter without letting us know who they were. We could never hope to thank everyone enough for all that they have done for us with their support, but I offer this opportunity to share in our joy. Our special thanks goes out to our nurses in the delivery room who helped with the DNR issues and the doctors who were all or nothing, all of our friends at St. Bernadette and at Nativity Catholic churches, especially Fr. Beres for being our priest on call. Mary Ruth you've had an incredible impact in our lives and we thank you for toughing it out. You were exactly where God intended.
Jan 25, 2005
It is with great sadness that I must inform you that Peter has passed away. Saturday January 22nd 2005 in his mother's arms, holds his sister's hands, he took his last breath and now rests with our Lord. Future updates will be posted at the Pretty Tough Guys And Gals site, www.ptgandg.com

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