Background: I told Onalee to post something to shake up the conservative membership of the forums. The post was deleted in less than two minutes. I decided to give Suneil a hard time about it. We got into an "argument." I was cracking up the whole time.
sHaDoWzERo359 (9:59:34 PM): don't be a pussy, let the girl have some fun
s81014628 (9:59:45 PM): no
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:00:00 PM): tell me you didn't delete that
s81014628 (10:00:08 PM): yes I did
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:00:13 PM): gah
s81014628 (10:00:32 PM): it's an idiotic form of fun by someone who thinks they are automatically justified on this topic
s81014628 (10:00:51 PM): i'm not going to deal with that, unless it is in the Intellectual Corner at the very least
s81014628 (10:02:01 PM): and when I move something, do not move it back
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:02:10 PM): intellectual nothing. lighten up, it's not like it's going to burn the eyes out of half of our conservative membership
s81014628 (10:02:32 PM): it's not about conservative membership, its about idiocy
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:03:33 PM): or just some random fun
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:03:44 PM): oh wait, guess we don't have a forum for that
s81014628 (10:05:02 PM): im not going to tolerate fun that is in the form of a topic which is blatant trolling with no justification
s81014628 (10:06:40 PM): if she finds the need to post this topic, she can talk to me as to why it is so important for the sake of 'fun'
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:08:33 PM): i feel like a college kid talking to an old man
s81014628 (10:08:49 PM): i dont care what you feel like, that's the way it is
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:09:14 PM): now you sound like my dad
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:09:39 PM): except he's a bit less anal retentive and doesn't delete members' first posts
s81014628 (10:10:13 PM): i wouldnt delete a member's first post if it was actually to introduce themselves and not do extreme trolling
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:11:07 PM): trolling? the hell is that? just slap a term on it and rant about how bad it is.. nice trick
s81014628 (10:12:11 PM): No, saying conservatives want to start a "pro homo" movement and insulting them in such manners with no provocation whatsoever is blatant trolling
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:13:15 PM): see, there's the crux. girls don't insult. they tease. *lighten up*
s81014628 (10:14:16 PM): it doesn't matter what their intentions are, it still incites flaming for no reason, and that is not necessary on these forums at all
s81014628 (10:14:23 PM): if she wants to do that, she can go to another forums
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:15:43 PM): haha, but that assumes the purpose of her post was to incite 'inflammatory' response, which may or may not be the case but we'll never know since you farted on it
s81014628 (10:16:17 PM): im not assuming anything, and I've said i dont care about the intentions
s81014628 (10:16:29 PM): regarding the post itself, it was in question and thus deleted
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:17:30 PM): so basically anything remotely interesting or not in line with every other boring post on the forum gets whacked
s81014628 (10:17:34 PM): and from what im hearing here it seems to be more about your intentions than hers, actually
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:18:40 PM): uh-oh, bust out the gossip. good one
s81014628 (10:18:58 PM): what is this then?
s81014628 (10:18:58 PM): AragornJunkie (10:14:36 PM): im very sorry. long told me to do it. hes very persuasive.
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:19:48 PM): self-redemption
s81014628 (10:19:58 PM): regardless, it's your choice to visit the forums, and if you find them boring by your standards and can only find anything 'interesting' in topics that cause unnecessary problems then no one is stopping you from not coming
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:21:18 PM): the forums are fine. but every now and then if something DIFFERENT comes along you don't have to squash it like a bug and reduce the poster to apologetic mush like that
s81014628 (10:21:38 PM): in this case, yes, I do
s81014628 (10:22:02 PM): for reasons already explained, as we're not going to have one person who doesn't even introduce themselves come and undermine the forums
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:22:19 PM): undermine? it was one post
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:22:44 PM): go validate tractorpuller if you know him
s81014628 (10:23:09 PM): magnitude does not matter; it's the priniciple that neither Kevin nor I would tolerate these kinds of posts
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:24:52 PM): nobody even got the chance to respond. it was just like "oh, this is different. and slightly contradictory. *delete*"
s81014628 (10:25:58 PM): being different is not the same as being majorly problematic
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:26:34 PM): that's just it. you prejudged it as a problem without letting anyone respond
s81014628 (10:26:52 PM): yes, that's what I do as the administratory
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:28:05 PM): discourage new members from posting and bash them into the forum-posters' mold?
s81014628 (10:28:17 PM): when they post topics like that, yes
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:28:37 PM): we're supposed to address the concerns of the members. when a member has a problem we decide whether or not it's significant enough to take action on
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:28:51 PM): this wasn't the case as nobody had the chance to say anything about it
s81014628 (10:31:11 PM): no, I'm supposed to set out certain rules and judgment where we moderate what is necessary
s81014628 (10:31:19 PM): despite what others think about it
s81014628 (10:31:36 PM): and if someone does have a problem with a post outside administrative judgment, then its looked into and decided upon
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:32:41 PM): that post was alive for less than five minutes. that was some quick looking and deciding
s81014628 (10:33:20 PM): five minutes is more than enough to spot a post in need of deletion
s81014628 (10:33:48 PM): people are paid to do it within mere seconds on commercial websites
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:35:57 PM): this isn't a commercial website. it's a group of people, and you did the equivalent of punching the new guy in the face because he had weird hair
s81014628 (10:36:14 PM): weird hair isnt flaming
s81014628 (10:37:10 PM): i did the equivalent of telling the new guy not to call others unnecessary names and make fun of them for it
s81014628 (10:37:21 PM): if he wants to actually post that is
s81014628 (10:38:06 PM): now if it was an old guy with some justification, provocation, or the post is worded with a specific intention, then it becomes a review situation
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:38:23 PM): you had no idea what the post actually meant
s81014628 (10:38:24 PM): but as for this, it was a definite delete in order to maintain principles
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:38:26 PM): and you didn't ask
s81014628 (10:38:32 PM): and it didnt matter
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:38:39 PM): is that the principle? delete and ask later
s81014628 (10:38:43 PM): no
s81014628 (10:38:45 PM): principle is just delete
s81014628 (10:38:58 PM): no need for asking
s81014628 (10:40:39 PM): the asking part doesnt matter, its the post itself, from a new, unidentified member, that was dealt with, not the poster
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:41:33 PM): there wasn't even a "what the hell is this"
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:41:37 PM): just utter suppression
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:42:16 PM): not asking reflects an apathy towards member concerns
s81014628 (10:42:21 PM): actually there was, then I read something about 'having fun' and it became obvious this was not needed
s81014628 (10:42:37 PM): i dont have very many concerns for a member that doesn't introduce herself
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:44:27 PM): oh yeah, darn that fun, there's no place for that on these forums
s81014628 (10:44:50 PM): yes, theres no place for that fun
s81014628 (10:45:50 PM): regardless of what it is, the topic premise was inflammatory and useful only to the topic creator, so the topic itself became invalid and deleted
s81014628 (10:46:11 PM): if you want to have fun in that respect, go somewhere else
sHaDoWzERo359 (10:47:23 PM): thanks for rephrasing what i just said and yes, we'll take our fun elsewhere