Skreyola
Everything you ever wanted to know about Skreyola... and then some.
Warning: Skreyola is extremely honest.
Who I Am (briefly)
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Religion : Protestant
Race : Caucasian
Gender : Male
Height : 6 ft 0 in
Body type : Slim
Hair color: Light Brown
Hair style: Differs according to its mood swings (Short, currently).
Eye color: Hazel
Eyewear?: I wear glasses.
Facial hair: Beard and mustache.
Body art: I don't have any.
Born on : D-Day
Study Area of Emphasis: Journalism
Occupation : Author
Lang Spoken : English, some Spanish, some Polish, some ASL
Smoking : I'm a non-smoker
Have Children : No
Want Children : Yes!
Lives in : Northwest Florida: Okaloosa County
ICQ Number : 166421305 Auth message: Drailen
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Skreyola
Where I've Been (briefly)
Education
Diploma: Crestview High School, 1995
Two semesters of Commercial Business Machine Maintenance at Okaloosa Applied Technology Center
NT Network Essentials class.
Associate of Arts degree (cum laude).
Computer Skills
Various computer systems: Fifteen+ years experience
Modems: Ten years experience
MS-Windows 3.x/9x/Me: Eleven years experience
Networking: Six years experience
Linux
Hardware and software troubleshooting
Ten-key
HTML coding and CSS
MS-Access2000
Experiences
9 months working in retail sales in Florida
10 months teaching English in Poland
2 months doing database construction and administration in North Carolina
2 months cashiering in Florida
Various short-term mission trips
What I Like (briefly)
A bit about my personal style: I like to
dress in comfortable clothing, whether I'm dressing casual or professional. Being comfortable
allows me to exhibit confidence, and that can overcome whatever else people may notice about
my style of dress.
Drinking: I don't drink on anything resembling a regular
basis. I don't need alcohol to have fun, but I have no problem with a glass of wine once
in a long while, or with dinner any day.
Profile:
Who are you?
I am myself. I am not anyone else. The less one
assumes about me, the faster one will get to know me. I am not people
you have known in the past. I am an unusual person, and I prefer to be
judged according to my own actions, not by those of other people. I am
me.
I am a single Christian male who lives in Northwest
Florida. I am an author of novels,
short stories, poems, and songs. I enjoy reading, singing, strolling,
dancing and listening to classical music; I also enjoy helping others
and offer support and/or advice to those who want it. I believe I am
thoughtful, caring, honest, and passionate about my beliefs. I enjoy
creative outlets of many kinds. I welcome the opportunity to get to know
you.
I have had many names throughout my life in the
different circles I occasion. I have gone by Drailen ("Shady Hillside"),
DSJC, Dedicated2JC, Fish, Jot, Nethylram, Redarnyll, Silk`Wing,
Skreyola, and Svynar, as well as my real name and one or two others.
Jot was the name I used for an earlier website, which I called
Jot's
Scratch Pad.
What are you?
I am a child of God and a servant of the Lord Jesus Christ. I am an
artist who creates in many media but mostly in print. I am a writer of novels, short stories, poems,
songs, essays, and plays. I also enjoy building things.
I am a voice crying out in the darkness, a writer calling for men and women to be lights
in the darkness. I like to explore difficult issues and make the complicated understandable, both to myself and to others. I also like
to hide additional insights in clever storylines, for the diligent seeker of truth to find. I aim in my writing to reveal truth.
I am one dedicated to Truth. I try in everything I do to speak truthfully.
I believe, however, that truth not spoken in love is not truth at all.
This is no excuse for lying—quite the contrary, it is rather a dictum that if you can't
say what is correct with kindness and love, you probably shouldn't say it. You shouldn't
lie, either, but there are other options. Sometimes there is no right way to handle a situation. Sometimes
you will not be able to say something true no matter what you say. In these cases, of course,
I think it is better to be brutally honest than to be deceitful, especially if it will be
helpful in the end.
I am one of the relatively few people in America
who actually suffers from ADHD.
I am a webmaster, obviously. I designed this
website. I belong to the utilitarian school of web design. I'm not much
of a visual artist (My forte is Conservative Liberal Arts), so my
website is designed to convey information more than to express myself.
One of my buddies told me the page looked stark, so I have added a few
non-functional graphics, but otherwise, it's mostly utilitarian. If my site is not
copacetic,
please let me know by sending me an
email.
I am one who worries about being misunderstood.
Though my words may seem harsh in text, I am a
gentle and compassionate man. I am one who appreciates the value of
nonverbal cues.
You can see what others think of me by viewing my photo
pages, or you can
let me know what you think of me by entering a
comment
(but please put your name or pseudonym on it for quoting purposes).
Looking for:
English-speaking men or women for friends or activity partners.
I am seeking friends and companions near the area in which I live. Trust and honesty are
very important to me. If you are a male, I am looking for a friend. As iron
sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another. If you are a female, I would like a friend,
and wherever the Lord leads, we shall go.
Dating
My current dating situation: I'm single.
Some of my views on dating etiquette: The man
should open doors for a woman. That's just proper respect (On the other
hand, I open doors for everyone-- It's just a nice thing to do for people).
I believe the man should pay for dinner in most cases.
Some of my expectations on a first date: The
first date is not the time to go to a movie, to say the least. The first
date should be devoted to getting to know each other, and that means as
much conversation as possible. If you go to a movie, you and your date
are making judgements about each other that are generally not based on
reliable indicators. After dinner and conversation, and maybe dancing or
something like that, the two people say goodnight and go to their respective
homes. A great night for me would be one full of smiles and talk. There
will be no kiss on the lips or cheek the first date, since I don't know
her well enough yet (though this might be different if we've been
friends a while).
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Silly stuff...
If I were given a million dollars, I would...: After I gave
10% to God, I'd try to help as many people as possible.
If I were granted 3 wishes...: I'd wish that Americans could
see truth, that America would return to the Constitutional principles on
which it was founded, and that people would at least
try to be nice to
each other.
What "power" would I like to have: The ability to change my
shape.
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Stuff for everyone to know...
What role is religion in my life?: It is my life.
Do I have any pets?: None, Do dust bunnies count?
Television programs preferred: I don't have TV. I have a set and a VCR, and I
watch what I have on tape. I prefer to watch educational programs.
Favorite kinds of music: Alternative, Christian, Classic Rock,
Classical, Opera/Show Tunes, Rock 'n Roll.
I like music because: It matches and/or improves my moods.
My favorite composer: Beethoven-- His music is inspired.
My first album/CD was: Probably Aerosmith: III Sides to Every
Story. I no longer have it; I got rid of a bunch of CDs when I met
Christ.
Favorite kind of movies: Sci-Fi, Drama, Comedy, Mystery,
Action (in no particular order)
How often do I go to the movies?: Once in a long, long while,
but I rent a movie when there is anything out that is worth watching.
My favorite types of books: Sci-Fi, Fiction,
Science/Technology, Non Fiction, Mystery, Tech Thrillers
When do I read?: Before bed, in whatever spare time I can
scrape together, or when I need a break.
My favorite author or book: Serei Davis. I also like Stephen R. Lawhead, Robert Heinlein, and Orson
Scott Card, although reading Heinlein or Card requires strong filtering on my
part, because they both get into some strange ideas, but I like
exploring different ideas, because exploring uncharted territory is how
we learn.
My personality is: Funny and silly, Intelligent, Realist,
Cautious, Quiet/shy, A bit naive, Daring, Unpredictable, Complex,
Forthright
The virtues that mean the most to me: Forgiveness,
Moderation, Charity, Self-control, Honesty, Patience, Humility,
Compassion, Devotion
An important quality I look for in a mate: A gentle spirit,
because while I like excitement on occasion, the best growth a person
can find is with a gentle spirit ready to learn and be corrected, if
necessary. I strive for that spirit, and I want to find kindred spirits
for friends and for love.
Sense of humor: Sometimes I'm silly and other times I've a
dry humor, but mostly I like the quiet, witty remark.
Activities I like: Pottery/ceramics, Cooking,
Woodworking, Knitting/Sewing, Computer programming, Gardening, Reading,
Computer Games, Board games, Writing poetry, Card games, Writing
novels/books, Photography, Painting
How I like to spend my free time indoors: My favorite indoor
activities are writing, reading, and talking on the phone.
Sports and activities I'm interested/active in? : Running,
Cycling, Canoeing, Swimming, Snow Skiing, Camping, and Walking.
Outdoor activities:I don't spend much time in the sun, but I
love fresh air, so anything outdoors that can be done in the shade would
be the greatest for me.
My dream house: A small cottage with enough room for a
family.
How I would spend my retirement: Doing volunteer work, if I
ever retire
The animal that best describes my personality: Fox
Pace of my life: Hectic, at times. Quiet, at others.
How I feel about my fame and fortune: I would like to be a
little better known, because I think I have a lot to say to the world
for God. I would also like to have a little more money, because I think
I know how to use money for good and I don't think I'm likely to fall in
love with it. Money has no value to me, but it is necessary to do most
things these days, especially for helping people, which is very sad.
I'm online: an hour or three or eight every day.
How big is my family?: I've one brother, two late siblings,
and one half sister.
How close is my family?: We're not very close.
I live in a: House
How I get around: Economy car
What factor is most important to me when looking for a wife?:
A committed relationship with Jesus.
What things in life are the most important to me?:The most
important thing in my life is my relationship with Jesus. After that, I
guess my writing is the second most important thing, though that mostly
falls under my devotion to God.
5 years from now, I see myself...: Whatever the future holds,
I know God will be with me. I view myself as a much published author.
Favorite scent: Probably strawberry.
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Stuff for those who care...
My disabilities: ADHD
Political philosophy: I was once called an
"Arch-Conservative". If you're curious about my views on individual
issues, you can find them under
issues.
Views about smoking, alcohol, and drugs: My views on smoking - Wine with a meal, or even
socially, I guess, is okay. The problems arise when people drink to
excess: that is, when they drink so much they lose control (or become obnoxious). -
Why I don't drink -
Drugs: I disapprove of all use of "recreational" drug use. It is
wasteful, dangerous, and foolish. Medicine is fine; Jesus used medicine
(He made a paste to heal one man), but our society has become too
enamored of drugs as a panacea.
When to go to sleep and when to get up: I generally go to
sleep between eleven fifty-nine PM and two AM. I prefer to get to sleep earlier
than that, but I rarely manage it.
Interpersonal and social skills: I was something of a loner
for most of my childhood. I was unpopular, and it was even unpopular
to be my friend. So, I only had friends among the military brats who
would move in, but who would soon move out again. Because of my lack of
experience, my interpersonal and social skills leave much to be desired,
especially my tact.
Verbal skills: I'll let my visitors judge that for themselves
by my writings.
Intelligence: It is probably best that my visitors judge that for themselves, as well.
Punctuality: The old maxim says: "To be early is to be on
time; to be on time is to be late; to be late is unforgivable." I
generally hold myself to this (but I don't judge others by it). It's simply a common courtesy every person should afford
others. No one deserves to be kept waiting without consideration.
Dependability: If I say I'll do something, I generally will.
I make promises only in good faith, and in good faith, I keep them. I
never make a promise I know I can't keep.
Type of furniture and decorations: I'm not much of a
decorator, so I don't decorate much. I have a few pictures on my walls,
but that's about the extent of my decorations. As to furniture, I choose
sturdy, stable furniture which does its job elegantly.
Geographical area in which to live: Wherever God leads.
What do you want for your birthday/other gift-giving occasion? I don't want this to sound as though I'm begging for things. I'm
not. There is one simple reason I put this on my website at all: People might give gifts, and
it's nice to get meaningful ones, so I'm providing a
wish list; a few things that would be meaningful to
me.
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Stuff regarding my faith...
Denomination: I attend a Methodist church, but denomination isn't important to me.
Importance of My Faith: Jesus is my life.
Faith Healing: I believe faith can heal, but I haven't tried it.
Church Attendance: I attend church every Sunday, and I also go to groups in the church that interest me.
Bible Reading: I generally read at least one chapter every day.
Bible Study: I study the Bible frequently, but not every day. But some day, I'd like to be able to say, 'I study the Bible every day.'
Prophecy: I believe there are prophets today.
Prayer: I pray once each day, but I try to always be in an attitude of prayer.
Missions Involvement: I usually do at least one missions activity each year.
Holy Spirit: I believe the Holy Spirit is given to all believers at the moment of conversion.
Demons: I believe demons exist, and they cause trouble in this world.
Tongues: I believe in the gift of speaking in tongues, but it's probably not for me.
Witnessing: I witness whenever the opportunity presents itself. But some day, I'd like to be able to say, 'I win souls regularly.'
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Other stuff...
Temperature of home during the day and night: I prefer that
the house be between 65-74 degrees during the day. It must not be
higher, but slightly lower might be acceptable. Temperature at night may
be anything below 78F.
The role of conflict and how to resolve it: Conflict lets us
know when we disagree. It gives us a reason to discover our positions,
explain them clearly, and decide together what course to take. Conflicts
should be resolved quickly and calmly. Reasoning together is the key to
solving conflicts, not shouting. Conflicts, properly handled, bring
people closer together.
Expected role of both persons within the marriage: The
husband is the spiritual leader of the family. The wife is a powerful
advisor, and the man who ignores her is a fool. All major decisions
should be made together, with both sides listening to the points
produced by the other. Cooking can be done by either the husband or the
wife. Cleaning should be divided proportionally based on the available
time/energy each has. Many things in marriage can be done by either
person. I'm sure there are some roles lurking in my subconscious I think
one or the other should definitely do, but I can't think of them right
now.
Views about power distribution within the family: Power in
the family should be distributed along the lines set out in the Bible.
God made men responsible for their families, and the Bible says that
husbands should love their wives. Therefore, all major decisions should
be discussed so that the woman receives the respect due her. Her husband
should then make the decision, considering her thoughts. The man does
not get the authority because he deserves it. He gets the authority
because he also gets the responsibility, and a heavy responsibility it
is. Let no husband rule his house as a tyrant. Indeed, the man should
not rule the house at all. Jesus should be the ruler of the house.
Desired number of children: I want at least three children.
Beyond that, whatever God and my wife decide is the right number will
please me. Children in a man's house are like arrows in a bowman's
quiver.
When a family should be started: Ideally, the husband and
wife should have at least a year to bond together before they have
children.
How friendships with the opposite sex should be handled: That
all depends on the friend, and how much I or my wife trusts the person
in question. If my wife is uncomfortable with a female friend of mine, I
will avoid unnecessary contact with that person, and in my contact, take
steps to avoid even the appearance of impropriety. The same should go
for my wife.
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Stuff most people won't want to know...
Warning: Skreyola is extremely honest.
Energy level for physical activities: I have a lot of energy
(I'm hyperactive), but sometimes, certain activities require an
emotional energy I don't have.
This is cyclical, though, so I may not be able to do something one day,
but will be able to do it a week later.
Amount of involvement with in-laws: This, of course, depends
on how well our personalities mesh. In general, though, I probably
wouldn't want to see my in-laws more than twice a week socially. If we
share interests, however, that might increase.
Desire for verbal intimacy and ability to be intimate: I have
a strong desire for verbal intimacy. I want my wife and I to tell each
other everything that is in our hearts. I hope God grants me a wife who
has enough discernment that I can tell her all of the truth in my heart
without hurting her emotionally.
Sexual drive and sexual interests: Let me first say that my
sexual interests are tame. I believe sexual activities between
husband and wife should be governed by respect for one's spouse. As to
sexual drive, I am a very passionate person, and I can probably match
whatever frequency my wife wants. (Am I blushing?)
These are my answers to a set of areas when asked to develop a clear mental image of my
"perfect person.":
> quiet, shy, or talkative, gregarious? Quiet but gregarious, if that is possible... I mean: sociable, but not someone who runs off at the mouth. If something is that can be said, she says it, but she doesn't engage in nervous or mindless chatter.
> intense, logical, or laid-back, easygoing? Either/both... I'm both.
> funny or serious? There is a time for both, so either.
> soft or tough? gentle or straightforward? Both. She should be tough and straightforward, but be able to be soft and gentle when appropriate.
> Intelligence level? She must be intelligent enough to converse with me, but needn't be as intelligent as I.
> analytical or intuitive? analytical, probably, or I'd drive her crazy (Interesting... at a previous time, I had decided on intuitive. I guess I'm not sure.).
> thinker or feeler? preferably a thinker... or would a feeler offset me better? (I'm a thinker)
> age? between 18 and 34
> appearance? healthy, (If I say proportionate, I may be misunderstood. My view of proportionate is probably 20-30 pounds heavier than most people's).
> level of ambition? reasonably healthy level of ambition.
> chemistry. Chemistry is a troublesome word... for me, this means I'm comfortable around a person. If chemistry means a zing, butterflies in the stomach and a magical feeling, I've never had that. While I've never had a feeling of an electric or magical spark, I've had a happy glow, and when I have someone I love, my day is brightened by spending time with her. I look forward to spending time with her, I feel happy when I see her, spending time with her makes me feel better, no matter how I was feeling before.
> spirituality? strong.
> character, integrity? Impeccable. (This is current. Her past (if not like the present) is repented, forgiven, and forgotten.)
> creativity level? Creativity is a major plus.
> parenting? I'm not sure what this means. I guess it means upbringing, in which case, I would simply say that she learned reasonably good manners somewhere in her childhood or early adulthood.
> authenticity? She must be very authentic. I dislike dishonesty immensely.
Related pages:
My Biography -
Various Thought -
Writing
