

n who has never
stepped foot
outside of their own back yard. Every city, every area has its own unique culture and
even our largest cities have undefined borders within their streets
where people of like backgrounds still tend to remain
together) but in all the many joys and wonders of traveling, the
mountains of home still call softly in the night.
moment and
fully remember that feeling of when you first actually saw it--then you
truly know and feel that this is
home and will always be
home. Even if industry, civilization, road crews and street
sweepers some day roll across this very landscape, these images in
my memory will always continue and through many photographs I have made
over the years.
evious
marriage. Having just graduated from college herself the same
year, she began
teaching at a small private school in Paris and we purchased a home and
rennovated it to raise the children in. Both of the kids were
very active in the public school setting and excelled in everything
they undertook. The different positions I took with corporations
based in Fort Smith, Arkansas, required me to travel a lot of the time
so unfortunately I was not always able to be there for all of the many
different school functions and other activities the kids were involved
in. But they always
made sure to tell me all the details of their experiences with the
phone conversations I had with them from whatever hotel I may have been
in at that particular time or during the times we spent together when I
returned home and before I had to leave again. The kids and I
worked very closely with each other in continuing the rennovations of
our home and they worked with me through every step of the way of our
planning and building the landscaping we soon surrounded our home with
to
make our yard as inviting and beautiful a place as it could
become. Both Joseph
and Laurie were gifted children and a true delight to be
with on any occasion. When their mother and I divorced, Laurie
remained with their mother and moved back again to Clarksville.
Joseph remained with me and then later when I moved to Chicago, he
remained with my own parents because it was toward the end of his
senior year of high school and moving him away from his friends he had
grown up with would have been difficult for him, at best.
Luckily he was able to
remain with my parents until he finished his high school journey and
moved toward the preparations of beginning finding his own pathways for
his life.
and is excelling in her career. They
have three
of the most beautiful boys anyone will ever lay eyes on and they are
truly special children in all of our eyes. I know Jason and
Ginger are intensely proud of each of the boys and have so many good
reasons to be so. Johnnie and Marcus are both in school and
flourishing. Both boys achieve academic excellence and make high
grades in all of their class work. Johnnie, the
oldest, is in his first year of band where he plays trumpet, currently
sits first chair and recently took first place in the Solo and Ensemble
competition in his solo performance and is a very active member with
his church where he also performs in all plays and productions given by
the youth group. Marcus, the middle
son, seems to love sports and strives to attempt his hand at any
atheletic sport available to him and is also very active in their
church and all youth activities and plays as well.
His interests seem to be unlimited and his dedication to whatever goal
is in front of him at any given time is always first on his mind.
Cody, the youngest, has not started his school term yet but will start
with the coming fall. Not only having the distinction of being
the youngest of the brood, he is also the absolute only child of the
entire Sutliff side of the family to have a full and thick batch of
curly red hair--not seen in the Sutliff line since the death of my
grandfather, Johnnie, in 1986. When Cody was born, and with the
first site of him through the nursery glass, the entire family who was
there for the birth made a collective sigh of delight with seeing his
hair and it has only brightened more over the few short years of his
life. He is also intensely intelligent, outgoing and loves to
play and talk and especially loves trying to take the phone over from
my mother when I give her a call and he happens to be at her
house. He's also already proven time and again he is more than
capable of learning and doing so very quickly--most times when someone
wants to show him something he may be doing when he starts school, he's
already learned the task on his own and is ready to move on to
something else he hasn't seen before. All three of the boys have
certainly made me very proud in the fact they excell in making everyone
only see how good and sweet they are and they have pulled the illusions
of this off with great success. It won't be much longer now
before I have to go ahead and give them the signal that it's okay to
start dallying around in world domination. Keep the eyes on the
prize boys...
bols and apparent "writing" meant which was
across the
whole of the stone, perhaps at another point in life yet to come would
bring him to someone else who might be able to understand what the
writing meant and would be able to fully explain to him what this
finding actually meant. When the landlord did in fact pay a visit
to
the farm, grandpa and grandma knew there was no use in fearing they may
actually be told to vacate the property--it was a certainty and they
had already resolved themselves to the fact. They would be forced
to
move within the next few days coming them, and the only real question
at the time was "to where?". When the landlord drove to their
home to deliver the news, it was a
tremendous shock to my grandparents that when the landlord happened to
see the stone grandpa had found, the
landlord studied it for several minutes and spoke to grandpa about it
asking where it had been found. The only information he could
provide
the landlord about the stone was the simple fact that he had just
recently found it in the lower field close to the main creek running
through the property but he certainly could not say what the stone
actually was or meant with the images carved into the rock. The
landlord offered no explination as to what he personally felt any of
the carvings might have meant, but the offer he made to my grandparents
then was something that was so incredibly shocking they found
themselves speechless for many long minutes before simply saying yes to
the proposal just given them. The landlord offered to give them
the
full deeds to the property right then and there if they would hand the
stone over to him fully and he would accept the rock as payment in full
for the entire property. To this very day, it remains a complete
mystery as to what the carvings on the stone meant or who could have
possibly carved these images in the stone, nor do they
know if the carvings were ever identified as being from any certain
tribe of Indians or any other clue at all if it could have been carved
by someone else entirely. Regardless of their never finding out
any
further information on the stone at all--the fact remained they had
just paid
the entire property off in full by paying with a stone found in a lower
field of the property itself. The deeds to the property
ownership exchanged hands and the rock was taken away by the former
landlord and the property has been in the family since that very
day. My very own legacy was purchased, literally, with a rock.