Flowers

*** Bride's Bouquet ***

The bridal bouquet is one of the most important elements of the bride's attire and deserves special attention. Start by selecting the color and shape of the bouquet. Consider stephanotis (tradition regards it as the bridal good-luck flower}! The bridal bouquet should be carried low enough so that all the intricate details of your gown are visible.

There are many colors, scents, sizes, shapes and styles of bouquets to choose from. The traditional bridal bouquet is made of white flowers. Stephanotis, gardenias, white roses, orchids and lilies of the valley are popular choices for an all-white bouquet.

If you prefer a colorful bouquet, you may want to consider using roses, tulips, stock, peonies, freesias, and Gerbera, which come in a wide variety of colors. Using scented flowers in your bouquet will evoke memories of your wedding day whenever you smell them in the future. Popular fragrant flowers for bouquets are gardenias, freesias, magnolias, and wisteria. Select flowers that are in season to assure availability.

Your flowers should complement the season, your gown, your color scheme, your attendants' attire, and the style and formality of your wedding. If you have a favorite flower, build your bouquet around it and include it in all your arrangements. Some flowers carry centuries of symbolism. Pimpernel signifies change; white lowers radiate innocence; forget-me-nots indicate true love; and ivy stands for friendship, fidelity, and matrimony ( the three essentials for a happy marriage).

No flower, however, has as much symbolism for brides as the orange blossom, having at least 700 years of nuptial history. Its unusual ability to simultaneously bear flowers and produce fruit symbolizes the fusion of beauty, personality, and fertility.

Whatever flowers you select, final arrangements should be made well in advance of your wedding date to insure availability. Confirm your final order and delivery time a few days before the wedding. Have the flowers delivered before the photographer arrives so that you can include them in your pre-ceremony photos.

In determining the size of your bouquet, consider your gown and your overall stature. Carry a smaller bouquet if you're petite or if your gown is fairly ornate. A long, cascading bouquet complements a fairly simple gown or a tall or larger bride. Arm bouquets look best when resting naturally in the crook of your arm.

For a natural, fresh-picked look, have your florist put together a cluster of flowers tied together with a ribbon. For a Victorian appeal, carry a nosegay or a basket filled with flowers. Or carry a Bible or other family heirloom decorated with just a few flowers. For a contemporary look, you may want to consider carrying an arrangement of calla lilies or other long-stemmed flower over your arm. For a dramatic statement, carry a single stem of your favorite flower!

Be sure you ask all the following questions before selecting a florist:

• What is the name and phone number of my contact person?
  
  
• How many years of professional floral experience do you have?
  
  
• What percentage of your business is dedicated to weddings?
  
  
• Do you have access to out-of-season flowers?
  
  
• Will you visit the ceremony and reception sites to make floral recommendations?
  
  
• Can you preserve my bridal bouquet?
  
  
• Do you rent vases and candleholders?
  
  
• Can you provide silk flowers?
  
  
• What is your cost of a bridal bouquet made of a dozen white roses and stephanotis?
  
  
• What is your cost of a boutonniere made of a single white rose?
  
  
• What is your cost of a corsage made with two gardenias?
  
  
• Do you have liability insurance?
  
  
• What is your delivery and set-up fee?
  
  
• What is your payment policy?
  
  
• What is your cancellation policy?
  
  
• Do you accept credit cards?
  
  
• What are your hours?
  
  

Caution If your bouquet includes delicate flowers that will not withstand hours of heat or a lack of water, make sure your florist uses a bouquet holder to keep them fresh. If you want to carry fresh-cut stems without a bouquet holder, make sure the flowers you select are hardy enough to go without water for the duration of your ceremony and reception.

The cost of some flowers may be significantly higher during their off-season. So try to select flowers which are in bloom and plentiful at the time of your wedding. Avoid exotic, out-of-season flowers. Allow your florist to emphasize your colors using more reasonable, seasonal flowers to achieve your total look. If you have a favorite flower that is costly or out of season, consider using silk for that one flower.

Avoid scheduling your wedding on holidays such as Valentine's Day and Mother's Day when the price of flowers is higher. Because every attendant will carry or wear flowers, consider keeping the size of your wedding party down to accommodate your floral budget. Hire a florist who works from his/her home.

*** Tossing Bouquet ***

If you want to preserve your bridal bouquet, consider having your florist make a smaller, less expensive bouquet specifically for tossing. This will be the bouquet you toss to your single, female friends toward the end of the reception. Tradition has it that the woman who catches the bouquet is the next to be married. Have your florist include a few sprigs of fresh ivy in the tossing bouquet to symbolize friendship and fidelity.

*** Maid Of Honor's Bouquet ***

The maid of honor's bouquet can be somewhat larger or a different color than the rest of the bridesmaids' bouquets. This will help to set her apart from the others.

*** Bridesmaids' Bouquets ***

The bridesmaids' bouquets should complement the bridal bouquet but are generally smaller in size. The size and color should coordinate with the bridesmaids' dresses and the overall style of the wedding. Bridesmaids' bouquets are usually identical.

To personalize your bridesmaids' bouquets, insert a different flower in each of their bouquets to make a statement. For example, if one of your bridesmaids has been sad, give her a lily of the valley to symbolize the return of happiness. To tell a friend that you admire her, insert yellow jasmine. A pansy will let your friend know that you are thinking of her.

Choose a bouquet style (cascade, cluster, contemporary, hand-tied) that compliments the formality of your wedding and the height of your attendants. If your bridesmaids will be wearing floral print dresses, select flowers that complement the floral print.

Have your attendants carry a single stemmed rose, lily or other suitable flower for an elegant look that also saves money.

*** Maid Of Honor / Bridesmaids' Hairpiece ***

For a garden-look, have your maid of honor and bridesmaids wear garlands of flowers in their hair. If so, provide your maid of honor with a slightly different color or variety of flower to set her apart from the others.

You may consider using artificial flowers for the hairpieces as long as they are in keeping with the flowers carried by members of the bridal party. Since it is not always easy to find good artificial blooms, other types of hairpieces may be more satisfactory, durable, and attractive.

Flowers used for the hairpiece must be a sturdy and long-lived variety.

*** Flower Girl's Hairpiece ***

Flower girls often wear a wreath of flowers as a hairpiece.

This is another place where artificial flowers may be used, but they must be in keeping with the flowers carried by members of the bridal party. Since it is not always easy to find good artificial blooms, other types of hairpieces may be more satisfactory, durable, and attractive.

If the flowers used for the hairpiece are not of a sturdy and long-lived variety, a ribbon, bow, or hat might be a safer choice.

*** Bride's Going Away Corsage ***

You may want to consider wearing a corsage on your going-away outfit. This makes for pretty photos as you and your new husband leave the reception for your honeymoon. Have your florist create a corsage which echoes the beauty of your bouquet.

Caution Put a protective shield under lilies when using them as corsages, as their anthers will easily stain fabric. Be careful when using Alstroemeria as corsages, as its sap can be harmful if it enters the human bloodstream.

*** Other Family Members' Corsages ***

The groom is responsible for providing flowers for his mother, the bride's mother, and the grandmothers. The officiant, if female, may also be given a corsage to reflect her important role in the ceremony. The corsages don't have to be identical, but they should be coordinated with the color of their dresses.

The groom may order flowers that can be pinned to a pocketbook or worn around a wrist. He should ask which style the women prefer, and if a particular color is needed to coordinate with their dresses. Gardenias, camellias, white orchids, or Cymbidium orchids are excellent choices for corsages, as they go well with any outfit.

The groom may also want to consider ordering corsages for other close family members, such as sisters and aunts. This will add a little to your floral expenses, but will make these female family members feel more included in your wedding and will let guests know that they are related to the bride and groom. Many women do not like to wear corsages, so the groom should check with them before ordering the flowers.

Caution Put a protective shield under lilies when using them as corsages, as their anthers will easily stain fabric. Be careful when using Alstroemeria as corsages, as its sap can be harmful if it enters the human bloodstream.

Ask your florist to recommend reasonable flowers for corsages. Dendrobium orchids are reasonable and make lovely corsages.

*** Groom's Boutonniere ***

The groom wears his boutonniere on the left lapel, nearest to his heart.

Boutonnieres are generally a single blossom such as a rosebud, stephanotis, freesia or a miniature carnation. If a rosebud is used for the wedding party, have the groom wear two rosebuds, or add a sprig of baby's breath to differentiate him from the groomsmen.

Consider using a small cluster of flowers instead of a single bloom for the groom's boutonniere.

Caution Be careful when using Alstroemeria as a boutonniere, as its sap can be harmful if it enters the human bloodstream.

*** Ushers And Other Family Members' Boutonieres ***

The groom gives each man in his wedding party a boutonniere to wear on his left lapel. The officiant, if male, may also be given a boutonniere to reflect his important role in the ceremony. The ring bearer may or may not wear a boutonniere, depending on his outfit. A boutoimiere is more appropriate on a tuxedo than on knickers and knee socks.

Generally, a single blossom such as a rosebud, freesia, or miniature carnation is used as a boutonniere.

The groom should also consider ordering boutonnieres for other close family members such as fathers, grandfathers, and brothers. This will add a little to your floral expenses, but will make these male family members feel more included in your wedding and will let guests know that they are related to the bride and groom.

Caution Be careftil when using Alstroemeria as boutonnieres, as its sap can be harmful if it enters the human bloodstream.

*** Main Altar ***

The purpose of flowers at the main altar is to direct the guests' visual attention toward the front of the church or chapel and to the bridal couple. Therefore, they must be seen by guests seated in the back. The flowers for the ceremony site can be as elaborate or as simple as you wish. Your officiant's advice, or that of the altar guild or florist, can be most helpful in choosing flowers for the altar and chancel.

If your ceremony is outside, decorate the arch, gazebo, or other structure serving as the altar with flowers or greenery.

In choosing floral accents, consider the decor of your ceremony site. Some churches and chapels are ornate enough and don't need extra flowers. Too many arrangements would get lost in the architectural splendor. Select a few dramatic showpieces that will complement the existing decor. Be sure to ask if there are any restrictions on flowers at the church or chapel. Remember, decorations should be determined by the size and style of the building, the formality of the wedding, the preferences of the bride, the cost, and the regulations of the particular site.

Candlelight and greenery are elegant in and of themselves. Use greenery and flowers from your garden. Have your ceremony outside in a beautiful garden or by the water, surrounded by nature's own splendor.

*** Altar Candelabra ***

In a candlelight ceremony, the candelabra may be decorated with flowers or greens for a dramatic effect. Ivy may be twined around the candelabra, or flowers may be strung to them.

*** Aisle Pews ***

Flowers, candles or ribbons are often used to mark the aisle pews and add color. A cluster of flowers, a cascade of greens, or a cascade of flowers and ribbons are all popular choices for aisle pew decorations. Candles with adorning greenery add an elegant touch.

Use hardy flowers that can tolerate being handled as pew ornaments. Gardenias and camellias, for example, are too sensitive to last long.

Caution Avoid using Allium as aisle pew decorations as it has an odor of onions.

It is not necessary to decorate all of the aisle pews, if any at all. To save money, decorate only the reserved family pews. Or decorate every second or third pew.

*** Reception Site ***

Flowers add beauty, fragrance, and color to your reception. Flowers for the reception, like everything else, should fit your style and color scheme. Flowers can help transform a stark reception hall into a warm, inviting and colorful room.

For an evening reception, use votive candles wherever possible to create a warm, romantic setting along walkways, around a pool, in bathrooms, etc. Use twinkle lights to achieve a magical effect. Place them on indoor or outdoor trees.

Consider renting indoor plants or small trees to give your reception a garden-like atmosphere.

You can save money by taking flowers from the ceremony to decorate the reception site. However, you must coordinate this move carefully to avoid having your guests arrive at an undecorated reception room. Use greenery to fill large areas. Trees and garlands of ivy can give a dramatic impact for little money. Use greenery and flowers from your garden. Have your reception outside in a beautiful garden or by the water, surrounded by nature's own beauty.

*** Head Table ***

The head table is where the wedding party will sit during the reception. This important table should be decorated with a larger, more dramatic centerpiece than the guest tables.

Consider using a different color or style of arrangement to set the head table apart from the other tables.

Caution Avoid using fragrant flowers, such as Allium or Narcissus, on tables where food is being served or eaten, as their fragrance may conflict with other aromas.

*** Guest Tables ***

At a reception where guests are seated, a small flower arrangement may be placed on each table. The arrangements should complement the table linens and the size of the table, and should be kept low enough so as not to hinder conversation among guests seated across from each other.

Caution Avoid using highly fragrant flowers on tables where food is being served or eaten.

To keep me cost down and for less formal receptions, use small potted flowering plants placed in white baskets, or consider using dried or silk arrangements that you can make yourself and give later as gifts. Or place a wreath of greenery entwined with colored ribbon in the center of the table. Use a different colored ribbon at each table and assign your guests to tables by ribbon color rather than by number.

*** Buffet Table ***

If buffet tables are used, have some type of floral arrangement on the tables to add color and beauty to your display of food.

Whole fruits and bunches of berries offer a variety of design possibilities. Figs add a festive touch. Pineapples are a sign of hospitality. Vegetables offer an endless array of options to decorate with. Herbs are yet another option in decorating. A mixture of rosemary and mint combined with scented geraniums makes a very unique table decoration.

Depending on the size of the table, place one or two arrangements at each side.

Caution Avoid placing carnations, snapdragons, and Star of Bethlehem next to buffet displays of fruits or vegetables, as these flowers are extremely sensitive to the gasses emitted by these foods.

*** Punch Table ***

Put an assortment of greens or a small arrangement of flowers at the punch table.

*** Cake Table ***

The wedding cake is often the central location at the reception. Decorate the cake table with flowers.

*** Cake ***

Flowers are a beautiful addition to a wedding cake and are commonly seen spilling out between the cake tiers.

Caution Use only nonpoisonous flowers, and have your florist (not the caterer) design the floral decorations for your cake. A florist will be able to blend the cake decorations into your overall floral theme.

*** Cake Knife ***

Decorate your cake knife with white ribbon and flowers. Consider engraving the cake knife with your names and wedding date.

*** Toasting Glasses ***

Tie small flowers with white ribbons on the stems of your champagne glasses. These wedding accessories deserve a special floral touch since they will most likely be included in your special photographs.

Consider engraving your toasting glasses with your names and wedding date.

*** Floral Delivery & Set-Up ***

Most florists charge a fee to deliver flowers to the ceremony and reception sites and to arrange them on site. Make sure your florist knows where your sites are and what time to arrive.